Cosplay is not consent. It's a common phrase that's plastered around conventions, and a topic that is near to my heart. Although this phrase has one common meaning, there are other aspects that a lot of people (including other cosplayers) forget. The main action most people think of when they hear this phrase is touching. Regardless of the person's gender, what they are wearing, or what character they are acting as, there is nothing that automatically gives consent. Whether it is a hug, high five, or an arm around the waist, you should always ask a person before you touch them in any way. Do not be the creep with the camera. One of the most infuriating things is having someone sneak your picture. I have spoken with a lot of cosplayers on the subject, and it makes you look creepy. Always ask before getting a picture. You will get a better shot, and the cosplayer will feel more comfortable. If you want to get in the photo (or someone else) and do a certain pose, always ask first. If it is something they are not comfortable with, drop it and do something else. If there are a couple of cosplayers and you want them to do a shippy photo, ask first. You can't just assume they will do anything you ask them to. You ever see someone in a cosplay and see something that is not accurate, or you know a way to do better? Don't tell them. Their cosplay is not consent to rip them down or give them unsolicited advice. Instead give them a compliment and discuss the character or series. Under no circumstance should you ever say something derogatory, sexual, racist or homophobic to a cosplayer (or really anyone). Their cosplays are not an invitation to tear them down. Cosplay is also not an invitation to hang around. While cosplaying is a great way to meet new people, you don't want to over stay your welcome. If you plan on following someone around, ask if it's okay. Just because you are cosplaying the same series, it doesn't mean that you have to stick together. If they do say no, it doesn't necessarily mean that they are being mean or acting rude. They might be uncomfortable with new people, introverted, or already have plans. Don't be disrespectful if someone does not want to be with you. Part of being in cosplay is acting as the character you are dressing as. If you are going to drag another person in to your act, always ask them first, especially if it involves touching them in any way. Everyone is entitled to enjoy the con, so don't do anything that will upset them. If someone says to stop, or leave them alone, respect their wishes and go on to enjoy your own con experiences.
In short, remember that the cosplayers are human with their own set of values and emotions. They have a right to their body and comfort. They are not your favorite character/waifu/husbando/arch nemesis. Treat them with respect and ALWAYS ask for consent. Originally posted on Nerd Fest
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